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3 Secrets Of Alcohol Addiction Recovery Revealed

May 3rd, 2008 · 5 Comments

For successful alcohol addiction recovery, three factors must come together simultaneously.

Addiction recovery is amazingly complex subject that just begs to be broken down into simplicity. Here are the three factors that should come together to have a reasonable chance of success and lifelong abstinence:

1. Strong motivation - If the drinker is not aware or can’t see that drinking has become problematic, the logic becomes why fix something that isn’t broken?. This is a huge problem because the denial of a problem is one of the defining characteristics of alcohol addiction. Now, even if the drinker does believe that they have a problem, there’s a question of whether they’re willing to do something about it, and what are they willing to do? Frequently they may admit that their use of alcohol is a problem, but are not willing to “go to any lenghts” to solve it. They will spin around in circles in futile efforts to maintain ‘control’ over their drinking.

2. The timing must be right. - When a drinker realizes problems are occurring in their life because of drinking, that is a start, but not enough. Many alcohol users are perfectly aware that the drinking is a problem but are not ready to tackle it. Timing and motivation are frequently brought about by personal crisis that is close to home and personal. Getting hit in the head with a proverbial baseball bat, such as losing a relationship, job, or a trip to the hospital. Motivation and timing generally do not come together as a result of nagging, finger-pointing or educating the alcoholic on the evils of addiction. I knew I had a problem with drinking for 20 years, and said I could quit any time I wanted to, but the time was never quite right. If an alcohol abuser has admitted they have a problem with drinking, and says they are thinking of or ready to quit the next question is simply… now? If the timing is right we move onto the next piece of the puzzle.

< 3. Persistence -> If the motivation and timing are in place and a drinker has actually stopped drinking and achieved abstinence, the question now is how they stay stopped drinking for the long run? The only solution is to keep abstinence and growing in sobriety the primary alcohol addiction recovery goal. That occurs because of persistence. It’s crucial to keep a high level of daily awareness that no matter what twists of fate life has in store for us, returning to alcohol use is not a solution. The vast majority of people who have relapsed back into alcohol use have stated that sobriety lost its priority. They did not incorporate daily awareness of their alcoholism; proctively engage in life and relapse prevention skills. Many people returned to drink because their life is going so well they forget they have a problem with alcohol and believe they can once again return to its use and control it.

There are many ways to look at alcoholism and recovery. There is no one definite view or methodology that has been proven to be more successful than another, so there are many theories and opinions out there. It’s just that my experience as an addictions counselor working with people in recovery, that motivation, timing and persistence are necessary pieces of the puzzle for long-term sobriety.

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  • 1 sharon17984 // May 12, 2008 at

    Hi This is Sharon Williams a from Chicago.

    Came across this website through a famous search engine, went across a lots of articles, felt like commenting on this particular one.

    All points hold really right for alcohol addiction, given good guidance for the youngsters.

    Great Going

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    Sharon Williams
    Chicago, United States

    This is a comprehensive addiction portal focusing on topics of alcohol and drug abuse. http://www.alcoholaddiction.org

  • 2 sophie // May 14, 2008 at

    This is great article, I do not know anyone who suffers from this addiction enough to get this sort of help, but I can identify with it. It is such a shame in our society that this type of addiction occurs. Alcohol is so easily accessible and it should not be based on this and all other ills of society.

  • 3 lavern // May 19, 2008 at

    I once knew someone who was used to be an alcoholic and at the same time a chain smoker. He was really a hard drinker and has to take 2 packs or more of cigarette in a day. But once he felt something was wrong in his body system he abruptly stop his vices. I just have to observe his perseverance the day he stopped his vices. He said “it’s all in the mind”, meaning it is the free will of the person to stop such addictions. There was no really turning back to his addiction as one said, “It’s all in the mind”.

  • 4 Michelle S. // Aug 26, 2008 at

    As a recovery alcoholic who drank on and off for over 25 years, I know that alcoholism is not only a mental addiction. Those who stop drinking abruptly can suffer seizures and may actually die from alcohol withdrawal. I feel it is important to inform those who wish to quit that they should be monitored by a physician when quitting alcohol. I am happy for the man who quit cigarettes and alcohol by his willpower, most of us alcoholics simply cannot ‘will’ it to go away. There are many underlying causes of alcoholism that are two numerous to mention here. The causes need to be treated and addressed properly. Good luck to all…

  • 5 illytodd // Sep 2, 2008 at

    It is said that the first step to recovery is admitting that you are not in control of your addiction. It can be hard to face when you feel all alone. Family and friends are a great support system and it’s valuable to have them walk with you in your recovery. You are truly never alone in your recovery.

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