Comments on: 8 Tips To Help Stop Self Defeating And Self-Sabotaging Behavior

By: Lazaro Levie

Lazaro Levie — Fri, 17 Dec 2010 11:56:07 +0000

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By: dreamr802

dreamr802 — Wed, 18 Feb 2009 13:58:11 +0000

I definitely agree with #6…there is ALWAYS an underlying problem to the first thought that pops in your head. You definitely do need to look at the whole picture and see why something is bothering you….But I do love this article…it’s a great article and many of the points are completely true.

By: Leeuh

Leeuh — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 19:13:36 +0000

These are great ideas, and food for thought. I know that I’ve seen a lot of people have problems with #4 and #5 the most.
#4- To a lot of people it’s easier to play the victim because that’s what they are used to doing.
#5- A lot of people have a hard time accepting responsibility for their own actions, and like to blame others. I think it also ties in with #4 as well.

By: mamatito

mamatito — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 13:43:27 +0000

This is a really good article. and it is very accurate. It is easy to slip into some of these mindsets if we arent’ careful. And often, one of them can lead to others. It is amazing that we dont’ see them until someone points them out. I have had to deal with several fo these myself in the last few years. I finally realized that my past my have been part of why I am who I am, but I choose to either stay that way or change it and it is my choice.