The fancy psychological term for this quick and easy motivation tool for helping people to help themselves with alcoholism and drug addiction recovery is called decisional balancing. It may sound complex, but it is really very simple.
Decisional balancing simply means weighing the costs and the benefits of using or drinking. The object of this quick exercise is to list the pros and cons, the pluses and minuses of using or continuing to use alcohol and drugs.
Simply sit down with a piece of paper and pen and draw a line down the center of the paper forming two columns on the first column lists benefits or pluses of drinking and driving and the next column lists drawbacks were negative consequences of drinking or drugging.
Then just do a brain dump. Just start writing don’t worry about how important or how silly anything sounds just get it all out. We will look at content later.
In the benefits column you might have things like it numbs the pain, I like to get high, it helps me to forget, I feel like I can do more, it helps me to get in. In the negative consequences site you might have it costs a lot of money, I went to jail, it might be causing my depression and anxiety, my health is going down, destroying my relationships.
Now that you have the lists done, they’re a couple questions to ask yourself. The first question is how different are the two lists? Compare the two columns and see if the benefits are still outweighing the negative consequences. Most people will find that the benefits that they use to get out of drinking and drugging I’m no longer occurring, while the negative consequences for the minuses list is growing and growing.
The next couple of questions you should ask when comparing the two lists is how much time does the drinking and drugging occupying your life? Are you spending the vast majority of your life either looking for the high, getting high, or recovering from the high? You might even be doing it to the point where you gave up activities which he used to find enjoyable. That is a sign of addiction.
The final important question to analyze an answer is are you addicted to the drinking and drugging and are you objected to the lifestyle you are currently maintaining, or trying to maintain? How is it working for you?
If the answers to these questions are causing concern it might be time to ramp up the motivation to change. One of the most insidious background features of drug and alcohol addiction the fact that it keeps us” stuck”. We come to believe that we have lost the power to change. But that is not true. The ability to change ourselves and our reaction to life in the situations around us is a fundamental quality of being human.
Is it time for you to change?
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Increasing numbers of young Hispanic men are being treated for alcohol abuse and its consequences. To provide culturally competent services, there must be an understanding of subcultural differences in the antecedents of alcohol abuse and drinking problems.
Hey when on the process of stopping drinking, never forget to seek advice and support from your family that can provide you all the help and assistance you can get. Stop drinking alcohol now and get your self back.
Wao great piece of knowledge. I feel like alcohol produced many bad situations in my life and it does ruin my personal life and the life of others as well so to speak. I am encouraging you also to stop drinking before it is too late to quit.
Learn to motivate yourself to come up with the decision to stop drinking . There are no benefits in drinking alcohol and the long term effects of being addicted to alcohol can be a life threatening situation and can ruin your whole being as well as the relationships with your families and friends. Seek for tips, advice, assistance and help to stop drinking alcohol. There are lots of available tips to stop drinking on the internet and you can find many e-books that can provide you all the basics you need.
Very nice post, clear info A+, Thanks
I have been fighting alcoholism since 2001…this article gave me a boost. Thanks.