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		<title>By: Nudge@Fix Marriage</title>
		<link>http://addictionrecoverybasics.com/bad-relationships-resolving-the-top-5-causes-of-bad-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-495539</link>
		<dc:creator>Nudge@Fix Marriage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2011 15:59:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, i agree with this. Controlling behavior breaks relationship. It is a kind of witchcraft-manipulating spirit hovering in your heart. Neediness is one, I believe. But in relationship, you have to show that your partner is an important person to you so that both needs will be cater and the emptiness inside will vanish away.

Communication is always an important part in relationship. Without communication, relationship will die. All living things on earth needs communication. Communication gives LIFE, builds HOPE and elevate TRUST.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, i agree with this. Controlling behavior breaks relationship. It is a kind of witchcraft-manipulating spirit hovering in your heart. Neediness is one, I believe. But in relationship, you have to show that your partner is an important person to you so that both needs will be cater and the emptiness inside will vanish away.</p>
<p>Communication is always an important part in relationship. Without communication, relationship will die. All living things on earth needs communication. Communication gives LIFE, builds HOPE and elevate TRUST.</p>
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		<title>By: honey</title>
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		<dc:creator>honey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Mar 2011 23:56:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>mines the worst of all. . .
i gave him my trust and all of my heart, he lies to me aand screams at me of couse i realy love him is he my 1st true love/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>mines the worst of all. . .<br />
i gave him my trust and all of my heart, he lies to me aand screams at me of couse i realy love him is he my 1st true love/</p>
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		<title>By: Paul</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Jan 2011 17:32:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think women stay in bad relationships because they are afraid of the unknown. Thgey think that the next guy they date could be much worse than the guy they got. So they stay in those bad relationships longer than they should.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think women stay in bad relationships because they are afraid of the unknown. Thgey think that the next guy they date could be much worse than the guy they got. So they stay in those bad relationships longer than they should.</p>
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		<title>By: steve</title>
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		<dc:creator>steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Dec 2010 03:11:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lies destroy a crucial component of any relationship: trust. Once you catch a whiff of duplicity in the air, look out! Sure, it could be an isolated incident or a half-truth that might be forgiven and forgotten, but often it&#039;s a sign of trouble. A person’s need to lie is a telling clue about his character and emotional health. It may indicate serious insecurity, lack of integrity, or flimsy moral standards. And if dishonesty shows up while dating, it&#039;s likely to only get worse during marriage. Here’s a sobering fact of life: If your partner is willing to lie to you once, he or she is likely to do it again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lies destroy a crucial component of any relationship: trust. Once you catch a whiff of duplicity in the air, look out! Sure, it could be an isolated incident or a half-truth that might be forgiven and forgotten, but often it&#8217;s a sign of trouble. A person’s need to lie is a telling clue about his character and emotional health. It may indicate serious insecurity, lack of integrity, or flimsy moral standards. And if dishonesty shows up while dating, it&#8217;s likely to only get worse during marriage. Here’s a sobering fact of life: If your partner is willing to lie to you once, he or she is likely to do it again.</p>
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		<title>By: pat</title>
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		<dc:creator>pat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Oct 2010 12:37:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Trust requires both partners to believe that the other will still love them, even when they make mistakes. They are able to be truthful about being at fault, and they can be vulnerable in front of each other. If you find yourself lying to cover when you make a mistake, or if you are afraid of your mate seeing you looking less than perfect, you are not being your true, honest self. When you reach the point that you are accusing each other of hiding something, whether it be about love, money or who forgot to feed the dog, then you need to ask yourself why you really don&#039;t trust your partner.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Trust requires both partners to believe that the other will still love them, even when they make mistakes. They are able to be truthful about being at fault, and they can be vulnerable in front of each other. If you find yourself lying to cover when you make a mistake, or if you are afraid of your mate seeing you looking less than perfect, you are not being your true, honest self. When you reach the point that you are accusing each other of hiding something, whether it be about love, money or who forgot to feed the dog, then you need to ask yourself why you really don&#8217;t trust your partner.</p>
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		<title>By: Tony@Online Singles Personals</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tony@Online Singles Personals</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Sep 2010 05:49:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All great tips. Clearly you&#039;ve dealt with the issues that arise from not following these rules. I&#039;m sure most of us have gone through this. Great advice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All great tips. Clearly you&#8217;ve dealt with the issues that arise from not following these rules. I&#8217;m sure most of us have gone through this. Great advice.</p>
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		<title>By: Denis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Denis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 10:13:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow... I was confounded by the information you got posted in here. Seriously, people need to read this. I will recommend this to my friends.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow&#8230; I was confounded by the information you got posted in here. Seriously, people need to read this. I will recommend this to my friends.</p>
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		<title>By: Brian@structural foam panels</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brian@structural foam panels</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Apr 2010 19:13:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is off-course, very painful to have a bad relationship or a breakup with your loved one. Psychology tells us that the two reasons behind a bad relationship is fear and expecting more from one another. You might know that fear comes in a relationship only when you love and care for the person you love more than you care about yourself . In this way you want to take each step for your loved one. To eliminate fear in your relationship and to establish a good relation, it is necessary to share all information about yourself with your loved one and to take his/her confidence before taking a step that can affect your relationship.
.-= Brian@structural foam panels&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://wirelesslaserprinter.org/wireless-laser-printer/the-proper-way-to-connect-a-wireless-printer/&quot;&gt;The proper way to connect a Wireless Printer&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is off-course, very painful to have a bad relationship or a breakup with your loved one. Psychology tells us that the two reasons behind a bad relationship is fear and expecting more from one another. You might know that fear comes in a relationship only when you love and care for the person you love more than you care about yourself . In this way you want to take each step for your loved one. To eliminate fear in your relationship and to establish a good relation, it is necessary to share all information about yourself with your loved one and to take his/her confidence before taking a step that can affect your relationship.<br />
.-= Brian@structural foam panels&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://wirelesslaserprinter.org/wireless-laser-printer/the-proper-way-to-connect-a-wireless-printer/">The proper way to connect a Wireless Printer</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Denis for Marriage Rescue</title>
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		<dc:creator>Denis for Marriage Rescue</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Apr 2010 08:58:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wonderful! Extremely useful information you got there.

I must add insecurity and lack of trust are two major relationship killers.

Well-organized post and highly recommended.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wonderful! Extremely useful information you got there.</p>
<p>I must add insecurity and lack of trust are two major relationship killers.</p>
<p>Well-organized post and highly recommended.</p>
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		<title>By: dreamr802</title>
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		<dc:creator>dreamr802</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2009 16:30:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a great article.  I think that this comment is completely true.... &quot; All relationship killers come from fear – of inadequacy, of failure, of rejection and of engulfment. As long as you are coming from any of these fears, you will be behaving in one or more of the above ways.&quot;

One of my girlfriend&#039;s marriage broke up because of her feeling on inadequacy.  Since her divorce, she&#039;s been working on &quot;herself&quot; and not worry about others and how others view her.  It&#039;s amazing how any one of these factors can be detrimental to any relationship.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a great article.  I think that this comment is completely true&#8230;. &#8221; All relationship killers come from fear – of inadequacy, of failure, of rejection and of engulfment. As long as you are coming from any of these fears, you will be behaving in one or more of the above ways.&#8221;</p>
<p>One of my girlfriend&#8217;s marriage broke up because of her feeling on inadequacy.  Since her divorce, she&#8217;s been working on &#8220;herself&#8221; and not worry about others and how others view her.  It&#8217;s amazing how any one of these factors can be detrimental to any relationship.</p>
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